so much more
than just to the moon
Kieran and I leave for Japan in only a few days time!! We’re so excited!!!!
I’m also officially on holidays from work until I get back from our trip! Whoohoo!
I’m trying to write a list of 20 things I want to achieve/do in the next 20 years of my life and it’s actually really difficult.
Pedro Pascal by Kyle Monk.
"We met at the wrong time. That’s what I keep telling myself anyway. Maybe one day years from now, we’ll meet in a coffee shop in a far away city somewhere and we could give it another shot".
OKAY BUT HEAR ME OUT
THIS MENTALITY IS DANGEROUS
I have met SO MANY PEOPLE LATELY with this mentality. “We can’t work right now, but we’ll just put it down and pick it up later and it’ll magically work.”
Do you know the last three people to break up with me pulled this bullshit?
I’m not some game you save and play again from the same save point later.
I can’t wait for anyone.
That coffee shop isn’t real. And I’m sure sometimes those chance meetings years down the road DO happen.
BUT YOU CANNOT PLAN THEM.
If you’re holding onto the hope of someone you once loved coming back to you way down the road and letting that hold you back from living now, LET THE FUCK GO. It’s freeing. It’s a fucking prison holding out hope for those who hurt you. Don’t let them put you in that cage.
Several times I’ve held out hope that someone I was in love with would one day come around and we could make it work, only to get the phone call that they’re seeing someone new and break down in a grocery store parking lot bawling my eyes out.
IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU, THEY WON’T ASK YOU TO SIT ON THE BACK BURNER.
They’ll make you their first priority.
Destroy that imaginary coffee shop. Because it’s toxic to your happiness. Go to a realistic coffee shop, go sit next to that cute stranger and take a chance on new love and stop waiting for that leopard to change it’s spots.
Don’t ever put yourself on hold for someone. You’re worth too much.
i almost cried.
People have been saying this about my writing a lot lately not sure if I should be flattered or worried
Asked by Anonymous
I think it depends on how your best friend feels about it. If she’s still hurting from the break up then it’s probably not the best idea to date him.. but if she’s moved on it could work.
If I were you I would ask her about it first and wait for her approval.
Obviously she doesn’t control who you date but if she’s your best friend you probably care about her feelings.